Cool mng!!!

Hi all,

Gm..
Hv a fresh day ahead!!!

small words BIG thought!!!

Total listeningFor some of us, listening is the perfect time to plan what we're going to say next. We look them straight in the eyes, nod our head and appear to give them our undivided attention. We deserve an Academy Award for our acting. But as soon as they pause for breath, we start talking about our problems. Not nice, and it will backfire on us, because what we're really communicating is "I am not interested in your problems". Is this really something we want to communicate?

If we really care about others, we should listen to them with open ears and an open heart. By doing so we are silently saying, "What you have to say is important to me, because you are important to me." While I was working on this, I put my total listening idea to the test and was amazed by the reaction. The more I listened, the more comfortable and communicative the other person became - which made me feel very good.

Practice total listening - you will be surprised by the results.
Luv,
Viji.
" Hundreds of dewdrops to greet the dawn,
Hundreds of bees in the purple clover,
Hundreds of butterflies on the lawn,
But only one mother the wide world over."
-- George Cooper

Pleasant mng!!!

Hi all,

Gm..
Have a pleasant day ahead & happy weekend!!!

small words BIG thought!!!

Time for a 180º turnMany of us are always looking back to a land of lost opportunities. Our mind is filled with such thoughts as, "If only I had been more careful in managing my money" or "If only I had chosen a different career" or "If only I had accepted that job." If only, if only, if only! Well, here's some good news for us if-only people. Since it's impossible to change the past, we may as well get rid of our regrets and turn toward the future. We should stop looking in the rear view mirror and look ahead, instead. Looking ahead is more interesting anyway. And safer!
Fear not for the future; weep not for the past.- Percy Bysshe ShelleyWe must accept finite disappointment, but we must never lose infinite hope.- Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.

I recommend three steps for if-only people. First, close your eyes to the disappointing scene behind you, remembering only the lesson learned. Second, carefully turn 180 degrees. Third, open your eyes to a future full of potential and surprises: new prospects; beautiful places to visit; interesting job opportunities; and wonderful new friends to make. The past has passed, it is gone, it has vanished, and the only thing we have to remember is the lesson learned.Are you an if-only person?

Take a 180º turn and look ahead

Luv,
Viji.
"There are years that ask questions, and years that answer."

-Zora Neale Hurston